Right nor Wrong

"Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing,
there is a field. I will meet you there."
Rumi

It seems more common lately that various persons and groups in society are in a rush to make some right and others wrong. I suspect this comes from a place of wanting to feel more secure and validated in their behaviors and choices. But is life really, truly a zero sum game? From my perspective, not all things nor many things can be broken down to black or white, good or bad. I often work with clients paralyzed by indecision and fearful of making the wrong choice. "Should I take this job? Should I propose to my partner? Should we have kids?" and on and on. What we all need to be reminded of is that choices and behaviors continue to lead to other choices and behaviors and insights and growth and OPTIONS. Choose your adventure. We get trapped in limited thinking when we judge others as doing it "wrong" or "right" and even ourselves for making the "good" or "bad" choice. The idea that there is a dead end is an illusion. And, it's all subjective. Aren't we all just a bit selfish? Yes, we are! Can you trust each of us is on our path and your choices might differ from someone else and maybe that's the way the universe intended it to be? A homogenous society would be so boring. Evolution stops when everything is the same. There are infinite possibilities and many shades of gray. Life is about the journey not the end game. What if we all gave each other permission to just try things out then detach and trust it would lead to something else? Within reason. I'm not suggesting outright malice.